Rotzilla I am with you I was so close to putting the whole A behind me. My trips down memory lane were becoming further and further apart and less and less painful. But the latest round of lies and betrayel is hughe. Maybe because during all the time he was telling OW he loved her he was with me and telling me the same thing. MY H says the same thing , I wasnt getting anything out of the R with OW. He says she was also getting less and less, emails at stopped, phone calls and voice mails had stopped. All she had were conversations in the office and a hug here an there. H says he was hoping it would all fade away, but during that time he was still misleading her. He says to try and keep peace but now I think hes finally admitting it was more than that. Says now after telling OW he mislead her and knowing he doesnt want to lose me and that he loves me its over. I still have hard time beleiving that and having a difficult time waiting to be sure its over. I dont want to end this marriage but not sure I have patience any longer. I feel so betrayed.
