kml. Thank you for your very thoughtful post. It has certainly crossed my mind more than once... you can believe that. Although I find it very hard to believe H in anything he says right now, I do know him to be a sincere person. Can you separate honesty and sincerity? Well, H has, oddly enough. He remains sincere while being a liar (in my book) - I hope the old honest H comes back, maybe he is already. I don't know. My judgement isn't too good right now.
I do know that it is possible that he did not have a PA with her. I agree with you, very unlikely. But possible. I know that he has heavy guilt issues, they worked opposite shifts, and there are cameras all over the place. And even though he doesn't know it, I knew just about every place he was when I wasn't with him. Most of the time, if he wasn't at work, he was home... so, good point, but I am choosing to believe him in this one point.