Rotzuki- Do you find yourself having urges to contact OW now and if so what do you do about them. My H had an A a year ago and has tried several times to break off it with OW since then. They work together and things are broken off and then eventually they start speaking again and get close. Although I believe its only EA since about 8 months ago. H finally admitted last week to all of it. Usually I find out something and he has to come clean.But this time its different as he came to me. He says he doesnt love her but has feelings for her. Like now we are under a hurricane warning here in S Florida and in the past he has always stayed in contact with her to make sure she is ok etc etc. He is being honest with me now and telling me he still is inclined to do it but know its the wrong thing to do. He finally told OW last week that he has been misleading her and that we are working on our marriage and that he loves me. But he admits to me he has feelings for her. I just dont know how much more of this I can take. I am scared he cant lose those feelings for her and this is going to go on and on.
