I am so sorry the bomb drop was the LBS worst nightmare.
((((((Rottzilla)))))
I can so relate to what you wrote above about your Hs need for ego stroking, etc. My H is like that and that is why I worry about over friendly FFs. Anyway, I think you guys are doing great communicating and trying to get to the reason for why he has had the EAs. Without the cause, one has no idea when/if it will happen again. My H never confirmed his past possible EA but I do think that is was not appropriate and we have never discussed the whys.
(((((Rottzuki)))))
I am sorry that you found yourself back in the EA but I do commend you for coming clean and also trying to find the cause and work with Rottzilla on the BB.
Hang in there both of you, SP
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
