I also want to say that I think this is a great idea!! It will help a lot of us see both sides of the M!!
For me, I was VERY controlling in our M at first. I hated when H did things w/out me. I felt that he didnt love me or didnt want to be around me when he went out and I stayed home. Then we would argue, and he would get angry and I would get hurt. It sucked!! AT the time, I didnt see how much it was affecting our M, but when H was having EA, and I was DBing...I learned to do things on MY own, which in turn, helped me to understand that when H did things on his own, it was not about not being with me, it was about having some "his" time. Now, H does his things, I send him off with a kiss and a "have fun" instead of an arguement! And you know what...he doesnt do things w/out me as much now either!! Kind of ironic, huh? If there is a time though when I feel like he is "doing his own thing" a bit too much, I just voice my opinion, or ask for a little bit of "us" time so that I dont feel like I am missing out on spending time with him too. My .02 anyways...
