I will be watching your thread with much interest. My situation is similar. My H has returned to the man he was before he became a MLC'er and our relationship is good with the same exception as yours. He knows my LL is PT and he cannot meet my needs. I applaud your courage to come to the boards Rottzuki and will pay close attention to any discoveries you make that will help you to understand why you cannot give your wife what she needs from you.
