Former DBer and H need your help

[rottzilla]

Thanks for replying. Who were you before? (Or is that secret?)

I have posted over in SSM forum. Maybe our problems belong over there, but I think it has to do with guilt to some degree.

Again, I will post more of our question later after H and I have a chance to review some of what we read separately today while we were at work.

This is the best forum, you guys are all inspirations!