well - im back to peicing now! Ive just moved back from seperation post'is time out seperated' Im jumping all over the place! So H left for a week, then returned saying he positive he wants to work all this out - and stay together! PHEW! Now Im confused of what i do now! I feel like the excited teenager i was when we met!- and H is really starting to get into a lovely pattern of interest too. H regularly calling me- saying he loves me, misses me etc Weve spent some lovely time together over the past week- and things are going great.
Im just curious- how long do I do the DB stuff Ive been doing! I know one of the great things that helped H was he wanted the space to think about his confusion- I stopped initiating phone calls- stopped presenting as needy etc etc etc but do i keep doing that now? I dont mean i want to be needy again!- its just that i feel so happy at the moment and just want to cuddle him tight, tell him i love him all the time, and see him all the time (as you do when youre in a new relationship!) but Im still waiting for him to initiate everything? Im really scared that I'll start doing what i feel is right- only to discover it scares him off or something?
