Hi there - Gosh, you've obviously not read my earlier threads
Quote: thanx slowly- youve always got your head screwed on well!
It has been a long journey getting to this place of some sanity, I have to say, and I could not have done it without all the great feedback here, and many twists and turns on my road
Quote: Unfortuantely H told me today he is not going to go on holiday we had planned & booked at the end of this week-- bummer... Im really disappointed- I thought getting away may help... but H feels preassured and uncomfortable (my parents will be there also) and he also has a massive fear of flying... so... oh well
Just wondering, why did he book a holiday that included flying if he is afraid of it? Has something changed since the time you made the booking?
Quote: Im not going to go either- Im really not interested in getting on a plane by myself and going on holiday..
I dunno, maybe it will be a bit of a wake up jolt for him that you are able to have fun withut him, and that he needs to get off the fence? May be worth considering going anyway, especially as you have paid for it, and may be a friend may want to use H's tickets?
Slowly
