and even worst when I talk to other women it as if their husband can't keep their hands off them. And then I feel like the oddball or the ugly undesirable wife.
This is not something you should base your self worth on. This is so uneven. I may feel like my H cannot keep his hands of me. And Honey or Gel or Lil may feel like there S dont't touch them enough. Are H's may give us the exact same amount of attention this way. But how much we want of it is how we percieve the amount that our S give us.
Say each of our spouses give us a hug and kiss 3 times a day. I am the LD so I do not crave alot of physical contact. My H giving me two to three hugs or kisses a week may satisfy me so 3 times a day seems excessive and like he cannot keep his hands off me . A HD recieves there 3 time time a day ration and can still not feel satisfied or fufilled with this they want 5 times a day and anything less leaves them feel lacking. We are getting the same amount of attention from our spouses but how we view it is completely different. Do you see what I am saying.
There are a lot of LD woman out there. And alot of them feel they have a well balanced sex life if they have sex once a month. So unless you know how these people feel about sex and how active they are sexually I would not think you should base much of your selfworth on what they say.
Well that is all the insight I have for you many other people her can offer you wonderful advise. And they will. The board is more active durring the week the then weekends.
