Quote: I'm not saying sex is the only important thing in a relationship but I wished my husband found me that desirable to want to have sex with me. When he rejects me I feel like trash and even worst when I talk to other women it as if their husband can't keep their hands off them.
There are several of us women here struggling with this...
You imply that it's been like this from the beginning... was there ever a time when your desire was more equal? GEL is right... counseling can help. Even if it doesn't help y'all as a couple, it can help you alone to sort out your feelings. And it really helps to have someone to whom you can pour out your whole story. Please consider going alone even if he isn't interested at first.