C'mon Chrissy, can't you open up and share your feelings?
If that is the case, then CeMar (and others of the same mindset) are really misunderstanding the purpose of this BB. It's DivorceBusting, not SpouseB!tching. Am I frustrated & angry at my S? Absolutely. Does it make me want to scream, and angry at LD women in general? Occassionally. Would that be helpful to me, or anyone else? Aside from the relief gained by venting, no. That was why I suggested if these were persistent (which you seemed to indicate CeMar's expressed feelings were, across the BB) conditions in your R, GET HELP! You're probably beyond the "read a book, practice the philosophy" phase, and need to get a professional involved to save the M. Occassionally sharing those feelings on the BB is probably a good thing, and may help LD folks understand the internal turmoil HD people have. But if all you ever have to contribute to a conversation is "my LD S is bad, doesn't do enough, doesn't care enough, etc.," then you need to ask yourself (a) why that is, and (b) what positive steps you are willing to take to change the sitch. The picture I have in my mind of people like this is the Debbie Downer character from SNL...always focused on the negative, and driving everyone else around them crazy - even if the complaints/observations are valid & accurate.
