Though I pretty much lambasted CeMar early on in this post I will tell you I really have followed him around the board. His venom is a reminder to us LDs that there are people out there that cannot be satisfied regaurdless. Which most of us have accused our mates of being that person. He helps give perspective to the fact our mates are not truely like that. CeMar does not answer any form of direct questions often. Why he only derives validation from this board. That seems to be his soul purpose for coming here. He spews blame on all that do not actively want sex. Does not try to see any other perspective then his own. Then departs the conversation as soon as he is done. I felt sorry for him awhile back ago. I thought he never got any. Then I ran across a post where not only was he insistant that his wife owed it to him and he felt when they did have sex it was not good enough for him. That the reason she had sex with him was not good enough for him. Hello you make the poor woman feel like she is paying a debt that she owes you then you are gonna complain because they did not bring you crisp fresh dollar bills. WTF! Do you really think she would go the extra mile to go to the bank and turn in the stragly money for crisp new ones when all she really wants is to pay you the debt you feel she owes and get you off her back. Oh thats right she owes it to you to do this also! Comming here only to validate his feelings and vent them is not helping him and I am sure it is not making him try to understand his wife any. He walks away feeling his is right and she is wrong just like he walked in feeling. Most of us here vent then listen to others constructive advise to try to help resolve our issues. But CeMar walks into a conversation only hears the basics of it sprews his venom and slithers off like a snake. Wow enough said from me on this little rant
