chocolateeyes:

1) "Bait and Switch". Weather intentional or not is basically irrelevant, the effects are what matters.

2) The "To-Do" list. I have a wife with one of those. What I don't understand is I know hers, I read the ones on here, and I hate to say it but most of the things these ladies have on their list of important things are not fun, even for them. Most of them are chores, and yet they prefer those to physical touch, affection, and sex. This just seems so BIZARRE to me. Why do they focus on the unpleasant side of life? The only thing I can think of is that these women are driven to please others(except of course they are NOT driven to please their man). I see this in my wife, she tries to be wonderful to everyone else, but I am taken for granted. I too, receive less affection then the children, and even the freakin' dog.