I just wanted to thank you for starting this thread - I know that LD folks are the minority here, and are sometimes the receipients of the anger and frustration of us HD'ers, so I know that it takes courage to stand up and express the thoughts/feelings of the LD person. Those of us that are HD are truly puzzled by the behavior & attitude of LD spouses, and struggle with the feelings of sadness, loneliness, anger and self-doubt that arise from being in a R with mismatched sexual desire. Knowing "the other side of the story" is helpful. My W is in the same situation as you - had desire, lost it, doesn't know why. I'm glad to see you recognize the impact that it has on your R - my W either doesn't, or is choosing to ignore it. So your willingness to share your thoughts is really helpful (and valuable) for me.
