jen, Your sexuality is something you should persue for yourself, not for your H. If you think in terms of what will a healthy veiw of your own sexuality and a vital sex life will do for YOU, then you will be on the right path. Best of luck.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"