RE: Chrissy Sometimes as LD's we are put in the position that we feel we have to explain over and over again why we are LD. We are made to feel at fault or to blame for our marital problems because we are LD. We are made to feel that we are faulty merchandise. It is almost like we spend so much time trying to figure out why we lack desire and explaining it that we become exhausted from all the self analizing we tend to do.
In my house, just change the LD to HD. I get what is wrong with you for being HD (1x a week or 1X every six weeks). Change the faulty merchandise to sex pervert. Add in guys your age all have ED problems. What is wrong with you (implied that just because I don't have ED, something is out of the norm. Then I read the post of women who have H with ED and think "if she only knew"
Not looking any "O you poor thing" just want you to know the label and feelings goes both ways.
What makes you want to have sex all the time and think about it all the time? Not all of the time Chrissy. Just more often than LD's. Say several times during the day. I hope some of my post explains a few things.
It would be really great if some LD W's did half of what you are doing.
