Thankfully I never feel that you discount what I say or how I feel as being oh well she is LD what does she know. What she thinks is not important because it is not about sex. I remember one of my first post on here I stated something about getting out of the bedroom and into reality and got lambasted for it. My point then as it has been all along is to some of us LD people sex is not the issue. The issue is part of the lack of desire for sex. There are alot of people here that are willing to listen to a LD person and try to understand. But there are others that blantently refuse to look past the sex issue. It seems there issue is the only one in there mind that merits resolution. And if they are willing to work on other issues it is after there sex life is fixed. And truthfully I believe some LD people really have no issue in there marriage other then there S being so HD and not willing to compromise to a point where both may not be 100% satisfied but at least 80% satisfied.
I was in a game room last night and the people there play together often and were chatting freely. One lady made a statement about having sex and if it takes more then two minutes it was wasting time. Lol the whole chatroom exploded at this. Most where laughing and agreeing with the lady. Talking about trying to figure out if beige would be a good ceiling color making mental grocery list ect. A few men stated oh my god glad your not my wife ect but only one woman said if it only took my H two minutes he would be out the door. I sat and laughed in amusement. But again found myself thinking back to the fact prior to this BB I had only ever met in real life two or three HD woman and none of them were married. Most people I know are LD that are female.
Want to hear something I have mauling over in my mind for a few days. Okay you have the LD woman that come here and post. Not seen any LD men yet. So these LD woman do a 180 in life they become HD yet things in there life only take a new twist with this. As then there spouses become the LD so still no marital bliss and total satisfaction in the sex life for either spouse. I see it like this.
You meet up with a traveler and decide to walk together down a path for company. Now you are not really hungry but the traveler has not eaten in days so all he can talk about is food. So you tell him you live a few miles down the road and he is more then welcome to join you for a meal. The rest of the way to your cottage the traveler talks about how wonderful it will be to eat the hot buttery biscuits and how lovely the taste of the blueberry jam will be. So you get to your cottage and you make a lavish meal for the traveler. The traveler ask for seconds and thirds because he is so hungry and eats until you run out of food. It is getting late so you tell the traveler he is welcome to stay in your barn for the evening and you will feed him again in the morning before he journeys on. The next morning though you are not very hungry yet remembering the amount of food the traveler had consumed the night before you decide to cook a larger meal. Again the traveler eats plate after plate of food for fear of when his next meal is to come again you run out of food before he is full. You decide to ask the traveler if he cares to stay a few days and help do some odd chores in return you will feed him and he can sleep in your barn. He agrees. So again you increase the amount of food you make and you decide that you enjoy cooking larger meals and relish the company while eating this makes eating more enjoyable so day after day you feed this person meal after meal and with each meal the traveler eats a little less hence he is no longer the starving soul you had met on your journey. And one day after a meal you look in the pots and see you have cooked to much. And wonder why the traveler is no longer as hungry as he once seemed.
Okay so I have had to much time to think lately lol. Guess it is time to work on my own thread soon.
