I wrote: "But I think the connection with your partner sexually has to be maintained in some way or you won't be able to get back there."
And you replied: "I agree here. I do not think either Jen or myself stated that fufilling our spouse was not important to us."
When I wrote what I wrote I wasn't thinking of you or Jen or the other LD wives on this board. Clearly if you are on this board you consider the SL important. I was thinking more of the LD wives of the HD men who post here... the women who think you can go for months or years without any sexual contact and then one day it will just magically be there again. (I also was NOT thinking of the LD men married to the HD women on this board.)