Re: jenoftheisland From reading here on the BB, I guess there are numerous answers to that question, at least in the HD spouse's mind. Low hormones, no hormones, tired, lazy, crazy, nasty, bitchy... take your pick. I've read them all, and I guess I don't see anyone really 'getting it'.

jenoftheisland. I really do get it. Just stating the problems some "almost no sex" marriages might have if somethings don't change for the HD and the LD.

The LD can't call all of the shots in the bedroom just like the HD can't call of the shots where ever they like to ML.

And I do have empathy for the LD person. I have empathy for my LD W so only have 20% of the sex I realy desire.

Too many people want to use the "EASY BUTTON" or think sex should make you feel exciting before you do it. Being married to an "easy button" person is not fun.

Lou