Lillie,

Thank you! I appreciate that you are able to see what we are saying! I read so many posts about HD people feeling like we LDs are making the choice to give up a hot SL dispite how much it is hurting the other partner, and it simply just isn't so.

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But think of the other stuff that gets edged out, too-- stuff that you've let go of and probably haven't noticed because it doesn't affect your partner, so there's no one to remind you.




There are so many things I used to do that I don't do now, and if they all negatively affected my H, I'd be in a pickle!

Would I love to be that sexy little vixen my H married? Of course! I'd love to feel that way all the time! I remember the fun of 'christening' every room of our home! Now, I think of how nice it is when I can see the floors in those rooms!!! And that doesn't happen by itself either!

My H is great to help out; he has to with the busy house we have (4 kids, 2 w/ autism), but he doesn't really have time to pick up a couple of extra 'jobs' that would make me feel special/extra loved! Perhaps when the kids are a bit older...

Jen