All of those things say to me that you feel that they are all more important than giving your husband what HE needs, at least from time to time.
At any given moment, any ONE of these things may indeed me the most important thing to be done. But OVER TIME, to continue to do ALL of these things, and put off speaking to a spouse in their primary love language, says to the spouse "You are last on my priority list."
I'm sorry if that sounds crude, but that's how many of us feel.
