I can't answer for everyone, but for me, it was not a case of 'bait and switch'! In the early days I did have desire, and I did want sex more. I just don't know what happened to it.
I truly believe that this is the case for a great number of us LD people, even if it is difficult to believe. Why would we intentionally marry someone with a HD knowing we would have to 'put them off' for the entire marriage? Wouldn't it make more sense to marry someone who matched us sexually???
