Chrissy:

I personally think he needs a fair amount of GOOD counselling. He needs to change big time. I did notice that you said he blames you for his unhappiness and also makes you resposible FOR his happiness. Can you tell me how he should make himself a happier person? I have struggled with this question for over 2 years, and I still have no idea how to make myself happier. I know what would make me happy and I can not have it. So how can a man make himself happy?