I said something to H last night about going back to his C after yet another explosion of his. He did not comment. Do I feel he will go back to a MC no but I am going to ask. He feels I have the upper hand in MC because I articulate better then him. And that the MC is always on my side because of that and the fact I am a female. So it probably will not happen.
Karen, Sorry that my words were so down that it would make you feel that way. They really were not written from a bad place it is just as it is to me and sometimes acceptance of that is a sad thing.
I don't think C is really hurting the situation nor do I really feel he is helping it. H only has 2-3 more sessions with this C for his anger management issue. So even if he chooses to finish up with it that will not for very much longer. H had reported great progress to C with controlling his temper. Well that was because I was treading water very slowly to not disturb the calm and he had nothing to react to. In the last week or so he has had blow up after blow up so much for that progress. But if he goes back to C I doubt he will address or admit to this behavior.
