He has recently admitted that he maybe a little to controlling and agressive. And after a year or so of me asking him to seek C for this. He has I doubt he is really addressing many issues as it is not in his nature to admit fault plus he seeks validation more then insight. And does not handle constructive critism well he becomes very defensive which does not allow him to hear what is really being said. But his going was a babystep. And his C is more of the bandaid type C he does not address the behavior or reasons behind it he only addresses modification of reaction. He gives options for how to react. Instead of yelling walk away for 2 minutes count to 20 ect before you act. I don't know how much in truth that this type of C helps and for how long. As for him realizing his responsibility for his own plight no he does not my H lays all responsibilty for his happiness on me he also lays all blame for his unhappiness on me. In his opinion I am the only one who really needs to change. I need to change to be what he wants me to be.
