ERE: GEL to see what his response is as it may not be what I predict, BUT...I predict he'll look at me like I'm nutz!!!
Well you live with him and know him better than anyone else does.
Just joking mind you, if you want to do it to virtual Lou, draw away anytime the mood hits you. It won't happen IRL so both of of us are safe. Again sometimes you have to laugh to move on in the day.
they know what they don't want, but are clueless as to what they want ( I hear you loud and clear. When I started to post here I was way ahead of BB in knowing what I wanted but was still in the 90th percentile of listing what I did not want. I gusee my progress is so slow because we are both more into the "what I don't want camp" than bring up ideas of what we will try. I do bring up items that I want, but they don't get/have much air time. Fear of rejection again influences what we do or don't do.
But I'm up for trying anything GEL, if you do try it, I am cheering you on.
It won't happen IRL so both of of us are safe. Again sometimes you have to laugh to move on in the day. 
