It's not uncommon that your W would say "I don't know" when you ask what she wants....my LDH does the EXACT same thing, or I get..."what you're doing is great." Neither response is helpful...you know why they say that? Often they really don't know what they want, they really don't know. MrsNop's hit it on the head earlier, and pretty much echoed what my H has said and our C reinforced.....they know what they don't want, but are clueless as to what they want (especially physically). For my H it's much easier for him to let me take control, and I don't want control...not ALL THE TIME!!!
As for the lipstick idea...I find it intruiging and may bring it up to him to see what his response is as it may not be what I predict, BUT...I predict he'll look at me like I'm nutz!!! LOL But I'm up for trying anything
