Re GEL I can easily tell you what's too much for me

GEL, I am glad you posted your experiences. I hope it helps CeMar or other guys. I don't have any/much experience with oral but did try it with BB one time so felt what I might post to be not worth much.

I get to the point where the feeling actually causes me to see stars because I'm breathing too irregularly
I never knew it could be that intense GEL. What an inexperienced guy doesn't know. With out a willing partner, I guess the only way to learn is to ask and read. I suppose I could go the physical rout but I think thay call that cheating?

I have read some post by women on other sites and would have relayed those post here but thought one of the DB female posters, writing about their own feelings would carry much more weight.

Thanks for sharing your experiences and feelings GEL.

Lou