RE GEL Your description of her when she has an O makes me wonder if that doesn't overwhelm her in some ways. I can certainly remember several years ago when "thrashing about" would have embarrassed the heck out of me.
CeMar, I can see GEL's point here. I know I sometimes think if I do X and she gets excited, doing more of X should make her happier. It may be productive to do a less of X and see if your W is less prone to the more intense orgasams. Maybe having less intense O's would be more relaxing to her and she would want to do X more often.
There actually is a theory that doing less produces better results. It works in the gambling industry, training animals, and when working with developmentally disabled people. Don't laugh either. This "less is better" idea was taught in 2 college "Human Services" classes, and a statistics class.
I remember when I was a boy and saw some other guys down a Coke in one big gulp in a peer type contest. I did it too but did not enjoy the experience. The carbonation in the drink was too intense and drinking the coke, instead of being an enjoyable experience, became an eye watering unpleasant event. I eventually got used to downing a Coke in one extended gulp but I never enjoyed it.
When I look back on those times I say to myself it was just too much, drinking a Coke like that. It is much better to have a little pleasure spread out over longer peroid of time.
People do have limits to the amount of "fun" they can handel at one time. Anymore fun added past one's threshold becomes something other than pleasurable.
And your frequency of having sex should have been stated before. Maybe it was but somehow I got the idea you wanted and were doing it several times a week. I was thinking 'this guy is doing it perty reguarly, what is his complaint with her lack of pashion'? But frequency is a relative idea.
Any women want to post what becomes too much and how can a guy tell if it is too much.
For me, when it becomes too much, I slow down thrusting and get louder. Maybe that is too much information.
