Yes, she orgasams. When I give her orgasams with oral, there are many time where I have to hang on for dear life. She can really thrash about in bed. I can feel the spasams of her cervix/uterus. Sometimes she complains they go by to fast, other times she says something interesting, that if they lasted any longer, humans would not be able to handle it.
But if something is this pleasurable, why would you not seek it out. Heck, she does not even masturbate.
Do I pressure her for sex. I don't think so. We have sex maybe once every two months. But she knows that sex is a problem, and THAT alone means too much pressure. If you are LD and your spouse is unhappy with their sex life, will you not ALWAYS feel pressured?