What I want is the EASIEIST thing on earth, I just want to be wanted.
I wish this was the easiest thing on earth. It seems like all of this should be so easy. But I am finding it is not. My H like you just wants to be wanted and I have the problem of not being able to meet that need the way he wants me to. I feel overwhelmed with it most of the times. It frazzles me to no end. And makes me feel defeated alot of the time. And just frustrates him because he does not understand he feels he is not asking much of me. It is a endless circle of getting no where. I try to be affectionate but he feels like I should not have to try so he still gets upset and so I still feel like I am doing something wrong. We both still end up in resentment land. You would think this sharing a life thing would be a piece of cake. Hell it is not even close to a lick of frosting.
