Yes, the LD/HD relationship is usually unbalanced power wise. In most cases the LD has most of the power. I have asked before, what can the HD person do to restore at least SOME power. What I do know is that the only real power that I have is to work on myself or leave. These are not exactly POWER positions, they are actually pretty weak positions. I am open to any suggestions on how to restore some power in my relationship.
