OK, I'm not trying to stir up trouble, HONESTLY I'm not, but over on I-Don't-Give-a-Chit-AnymorePot's thread, Lillieperl said:
Quote: I can't help but think that cally is missing your point-- it's not about frequency, or him saying he wants you because in the past that is what you have wanted to hear. It's about him REALLY desiring you from deep inside himself... about something that is born in him and comes out of him and is not necessarily in response to something that you are doing or wanting. As some have said here before-- you want him to want you.
Why is it that I frequently keep coming back to the gnawing feeling that the only difference between that statement (and others like it on this bulletin board), and CeMar's rants, is that it's kinder and better-written?
