Actually, H and I were talking about just this thing the other day in the car! I sort of gave him the idea to just 'start' things on his own by giving me a back rub in bed after my shower and make it erotic! I also told him that he could 'banish' me to the tub for a soak while he got the kids to bed. That would give me some time to 'groom', relax and get in the mood.
The one thing that is killing me is the fact that I can't make this a change in me, that dispite wanting to change, I'm still LD. If I stop thinking, I stop doing. Really bums me out.
Thanks for the hints! So sorry Mr.HP isn't getting on board. I really feel your pain in another post I read, and I wish he could at least feel the way I do, that I'd like to do what I can to change things for my M.
Give me his cell number and I'll call him. Perhaps another LD person could talk some sense into him!!!
