Quote: I guess I'm thinking that relying on your body to be in the mood, when you know that it usually isn't (historically) is kinda silly. If you instead reframed that to "I know I get aroused no prob, and then the desire kicks in full force, so from now on I will allow my H to arouse me and not wait for the feeling of desire when preparing myself for sex."
WOW!! Very well said. (rhetorical question) If I gave you my wife's cell phone number, could you please call her and tell her the exact same thing you just told JEN?
She doesn't want to listen when I tell her. We're struggling with the making dates thing right now.
