HD, Sex for you is all encompassing, and that is good, but for LD folk that is intimidating at best, paralyzing at worst. People don't just give up something as great as sexuality for frivolous reasons. In an overwhelming majority of LDs there is/are very good reason/s for lack of sex drive. For LD spouses to begin to take a look at these issues is a huge undertaking. It's like asking an uninterested party to love the opera or the symphony. One must take it at it's basics and work from there. For many LD that means starting from the beginning and changing assumptions about sex that have been ingrained since early childhood. Often it means fighting the LD that comes natural, admitting painful truths, deep soul searching. It is easy to give up in the face of such a task.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
