That is the point (and excuse the circular logic here) If it is a chore, is becomes a pressure release not ML to me. Now a pressure release isn’t bad either but it isn’t ML it is MB with a partner. Make it worth her while (avoiding the cheep set up BTW), yes I would try to make it worth her while if it is part of an effort to make sex part of ‘being’ not just part of satisfying me. Like I said, sex begins before going into the bedroom, and doesn’t end with an O.
Right now, after thinking about last night and my W, I feel desire for her, real physical wanting (and no that isn’t a hard on). I can feel the tingling and warmth just thinking about wrapping my arms around her naked body. Closing my eyes for a minute and wanting to feel my cheek against the back of her neck as we spoon. I’m a technical kind of guy who understands the physical world around him. How can thinking of my wife, just thinking, cause a physical reaction without her even being here. That is the kind of desire I hope she has for me.
