Quote: We were in bed making love and I asked her which part of her clit felt better when I touched her down there. She told me the answer, honestly, then ended the conversation saying that was enough divulging information for now.
At the risk of repeating myself: wow! This has got me stumped. If her attitude was simply one of shyness or embarrassment, that would be one thing, but the feeling of secrecy is puzzling... As if she knows very well what the answer is but won't tell you. And I don't get the feeling (I'm probably reading too much into this) that it's not that you have no right to know... but it's more.... well, I don't know where I'm going with that. I'm completely at a loss. Maybe she MB a lot when she goes to bed by herself and she's embarrassed about it... embarrassed that she KNOWS which side of her clit feels better-- like a Nice Girl wouldn't know. But she DID tell you, so I guess that's not it.
You must be so frustrated! God, I would love it if a guy would really ask me what feels good and what doesn't and WANT to hear the answer. Most of the guys I've known (present one INCLUDED) don't take even subtle direction very well. My bf has even, on occasion, given the impression that HE knows better than I do what feels good/should feel good to me!