Hp, I was referring to the LD people on this board, most (all?) of whom are women. It's my impression that they tend to say they don't think of sex, they like it but tend to forget about it if they don't do it for a while, they don't get an emotional connection, and stuff along those lines. I don't recall any LD poster on this BB ever saying she was afraid of becoming addicted to sex (implying that she intrinsically liked it THAT much).