A perfect mate, from my deprived point of view, would be someone that sees with his heart and mind. ATM H looks at me and sees me well; he stares. He doesnt see the pain. He doesnt think of me personally. He cares for my food needs; but not the nourshment for the emotions. He is 13 years old with his expertise and I don't want to work with that.
Given up, pulling weeds and planting iris.
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
