InherJourney:

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I kind of associate that term with youth or with something illicit.


I find this interesting, I think my wife sees it in the same fashion. "Lovers" is something that you only have in youth, or in an affair. She thinks that she is OVER this phase of her life. To me this is a very bizarre way of looking at life. To me, I married her to be lovers with her FOREVER! To me, marriage without being lovers is complete failure. In fact, I see no real point to life if you don't have a lover to share it with. Life is far better WITH a lover then without a lover.