CeMar,

I think this is going to differ from person to person...but for me? (in no particular order here either)

The ideal mate would love me for who "I" am...
...would be willing to share his deepest secrets and wildest fantasies.
...would be able to talk with me about anything openly/honestly...regardless of the topic.
...would prefer spending time with me rather than taking care of household chores.
...would be a caring/giving/loving father who spends time with his children and shares the disciplinarian role (my H is this in spades!).
...would have a healthy sense of humor, being able to laugh at himself and at me.
...would be supportive of my goals as I am of his.
...would have a good work ethic and be a responsible/dependable provider for the family (as am I).
...would show his desire for me in different ways (verbally, physically).
...would enjoy pleasing me physically as much as I enjoy pleasing him.


That's just a beginning.
GEL

Well behaved women rarely ever make history!