I have been trying to figure out how to come up with a term that describes the nearly ideal mate. I have used "Lovers" in the past but this seems to describe most a physical relationship to many, not quite an overall relationship. "Companion", well that really does not include the physical side of a relationship, so definitely not the kind of spouse for me. "Soul Mate"? I like the sound of that, but again, it seems to describe a person that connects mentally, but not physically. So what term really describes a spouse that is complete, a spouse that meets all physical, mental, and spiritaul needs. This would help me when describing what I want both here and with my wife. I know, everytime I talk with her and tell her I would like us to be lovers, she then gets pissed since "It's all about sex with you, isn't it". She has no concept of sex being an "Emotion", it is purely physical to her. Passion itself is a very foreign concept top her. She is totally lost in her mental emotions, she can not relate them to physical emotions at all.