I still find it wierd not to have someone to ask an opinon of, or to compromise with, when making a decision. The more you do it, the easier it becomes. As far as decisons go, almost any decision can be changed, when / if she comes back. Don't stress over them. You must do what is right for you, as a single, not as "if she comes back". Keep your chin up.


M: 35; Together 14 years - married 5.5
no children
Bomb 22-JAN-2005; D a few months later
First real relationship post D just ended ( 7 months ):(