Your XW's attitude appears to be shifting. She seems quite unhinged right now. I am struck by her always calling you to complain about something that is wrong with S5 that she holds you responsible for. This has been a consistent trend in your sitch. I suspect that your XW is internally stressed and is not out of the anger phase yet. My WAW spent about 1 - 1.5 years in the anger phase. Eventually this anger will burn out. It seems to me that your XW suffers from the same problem that mine does, i.e. lack of coping skills. I dont know how that can get sorted out. I am beginning to have doubts whether mine will develop enough maturity and strength to be able to handle everything. Take care. I hope S5 is doing better.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
