Mine or Gabe's? I'm sure it was in both. I think that when the day comes when we are only using the pronouns 'I' and 'me', or when we use she/her it's in reference to a new woman, is the day we belong in surviving the big D (or perhaps not on the board at all except to provide support).
But the point is well taken that we should be cognizant that we need to focus on what we intend to do rather than what our X's are doing/thinking.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
