Gabe,
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Have a chance to go on a date with a very hot 36yo. Could make it a safe lunch/drinks outing. Any thoughts?

First thought - "Why not?"

If you're ready to date, go for it. You're not a married man, and X is not showing signs that reconciliation is in the forefront of her plans. I wouldn't try to rub her face in it, but this is part of the logical consequences of D. Maybe she didn't think much about the fact that you would have the option to date.

I think it's up to you to decide when you're ready.

Thanks,

K

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