Yes, I see your point. However, I am just very frustrated for Gabe. I think this thing that happened in the past couple months in his sitch is just a transient that will pass. I am just hoping that he will not see the positives in his sitch. I see many here. It would be shame to stop DBing and showing unconditional love to his W as a result of the recent crap. Both of us seem to have his best interests at heart but are coming from opposite sides of the experience spectrum.
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
