I have to agree with Jo here. Sounds like you really need to distance yourself and set some firm boundries. The RO has pretty much set the boundries. Stick to the boundries set by the court. She has the power to lift the RO, she needs to realize she cant have it both ways. If it were me I would avoid all contact, until the day the RO is lifted and only if it is lifted by her. Maybe I'm being too harsh, but I just get so frustrated with WAS syndrome.
It could be worse, for example, yesterday when I went to pick up the boys, OM opened the door, introduced himself and extended his hand. Real nice guy. They act as if nothing ever happened.
